What To Do After Getting Engaged

Congratulations on your engagement! What an exciting milestone! This moment is the start of a beautiful chapter in your love story, and before diving headfirst into planning, it’s important to take a step back and truly savor this season of life. 

Here’s a step-by-step guide to help you navigate the first moments of engagement bliss while setting a solid foundation for your wedding planning journey.

1. Soak It All In

Take a deep breath and let it sink in…You’re engaged! Snap some selfies, stare at your ring (we know you’re already doing this, and rightfully so), and revel in the love between you and your partner. Share the big news with your closest family and friends in whatever way feels meaningful to you—whether it’s a FaceTime call or a fun announcement post.

This is also a great time to start journaling or capturing your thoughts and feelings. These memories will be precious keepsakes as the years go by.

2. Celebrate Your Love

An engagement is worth celebrating! Whether you throw a party, plan a dinner, or simply enjoy a cozy night in with your partner, take a moment to toast to the incredible journey you’re about to embark on.

You can also check out our blog on embracing the engagement era [insert link] for more ideas on how to make the most of this special time.

3. Dream Big Together

Before diving into logistics, dream a little. Sit down with your partner and discuss your vision for the wedding day. What kind of vibe do you both want? A big city celebration or an intimate countryside affair? Start talking about the non-negotiables, like must-have experiences or meaningful traditions you’d like to include.

This dreaming phase doesn’t have to be perfect—it’s just about beginning the conversation.

4. Set A Budget (Or Ballpark One)

The sooner you start discussing finances, the better. Think about who will contribute to the wedding and what feels realistic for your budget. If you need help navigating this step, we’ve got you! Working with a wedding planner early on can help you allocate your funds effectively and prioritize what matters most to you.

5. Hire A Wedding Planner

This step should be at the top of your list! Wedding planning can feel overwhelming without the right guidance, and that’s where we come in. At SouthWind Events, we’ll help you create a wedding that feels personal, stress-free, and completely unforgettable.

By booking your planner early, you’ll have an expert partner to help with everything from finding your dream venue to managing the details, timelines, and vendors. We’ll also help you navigate engagement season with ease, so you can spend more time soaking in the joy and less time stressing.

6. Start Thinking About The Big Vendors

Once you’ve locked in a planner, you can start checking off the big-ticket items, like your venue, photographer, and entertainment. These tend to book up quickly, so having a pro on your side can make all the difference.

7. Enjoy The Season Of Life You’re In!

Remember, your engagement isn’t just a bridge to the wedding day—it’s a beautiful chapter in its own right. Take date nights without any wedding talk, revisit the place where you got engaged, and most importantly, continue to focus on your relationship. This season is fleeting, so make the most of it!

Ready To Start Planning Your Wedding In Chicago?

At SouthWind Events, we specialize in turning your wedding dreams into reality. From day one, we’re here to guide you, manage the details, and make sure your engagement and wedding day are filled with joy.

Book a consultation with us today to take the first step toward a stress-free wedding planning experience! Let’s make your day beautiful together.