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Your wedding day is one that should be filled with great joy.  It marks the start of the beginning of a new chapter in your life and a new and exciting journey with your love.  However, for those who have lost people they love dearly, there may be lingering feelings of sadness or disappointment because […]

Wedding Planning, Weddings

4 Ways to Remember Loved Ones at Your Wedding

flower girl

Flower Girl Questions Do I need a flower girl in my ceremony? No, you do not need a flower girl or flower child as part of your wedding ceremony.  While flower children can add a great cute factor, but they aren’t necessary.  So feel free to do away with tradition if you’re not interested or […]

Flower Girl, Weddings

Flower Girl 101

outdoor-wedding-portrait

Now that I’ve finally started this blog, I get to share some of our amazing weddings. Ciara first contacted us about planning her wedding in January 2018. The months we spent with her walking through the planning process were so much fun! In fact, some of our wedding planning meetings turned into a watch party […]

Weddings

Lavender and Silver, Laughter and Love | Odyssey Country Club | Ciara and Thomas

outdoor engagement photo

Introduction After months, or years, of planning, it’s finally the week of your big day!  All the vendors are paid and you’re counting down the hours.   One of the last major milestones is the wedding rehearsal.  So let’s address a few myths and make some things clear about this wedding related event. First things first.  […]

Wedding Rehearsal, Weddings

Wedding Rehearsals – The Real Deal

wedding jar

Introduction Wedding vendor discounts …let’s talk about it!   Everyone loves to save money.  We all want a good deal. A bargain. The best value. However, value is relative and comes in a lot of forms. What we offer our clients is a value because the service is impeccable. We provide a full client experience, not […]

Wedding Vendors, Weddings

Why Wedding Vendor Discounts Should Be Cancelled

white wedding chairs

Introduction In our blog Wedding Rehearsals – The Real Deal, we debunk some myths about rehearsals and answer some frequently asked questions.  Today, we’re going to give you 11 steps to an easy and efficient wedding rehearsal. 7 Things To Do BEFORE the Rehearsal Hire a wedding planner (or coordinator)I’m sure you’re thinking “of course she would say […]

Wedding Rehearsal, Weddings

11 Steps to an Easy Wedding Rehearsal

package list

the ultimate packing list With everything that’s going on leading up to your wedding, packing for your big day can feel like a monumental task.  You want to make sure you have everything, but also don’t want to overpack.  On top of that, add “stress brain.”   You know it, when you feel like you’re missing […]

Wedding Checklist, Wedding Planning, Weddings

Wedding Day Packing Checklist

outdoor wedding portrait

Blair & Nate met in 2005 when they were in 7th grade. Six years later, after becoming friends in their senior year of high school, they had their first date to Lincoln Park Zoo. By September 2018, they married with a modern, simple & fun celebration. We had planned for the first look and pre-ceremony […]

Weddings

Navy and Gold | Simple, Modern, Fun & Elegant | Blair & Nate

Explore the enchanting love stories of couples we've had the honor and privilege to work with over the years. It’s been our joy to create signature wedding day experiences for each of them.